Benefits of dating a younger guy
That often means less money – but also more practice and expertise at having fun on a budget.Anyone who’s not taking advantage will make it obvious by inviting you out to (cheap/free) things, or cooking for you, even if it's just pasta or grilled cheese sandwiches.Many women find that younger men appreciate their bodies, minds and wisdom more than an older man does.A younger man who dates an older woman usually has respect and reverence for women. He can appreciate her past relationships or marriages as experiences that made her wiser, and he sees her as someone he can both love and learn from.Dating anybody more than a decade younger than you – or sometimes even less than that – means that they’ll probably a) be much more plugged into the current cultural scene than you and b) have a totally different frame of cultural reference.
On the other hand, particularly if you are their first serious partner, they may be swept up in "first love" and want that fairytale happy ending,' so you may need to be the one to put the brakes on if that’s not really what you want or where you see things going.
Last month’s ‘Reasons to date an older woman’ seemed to strike a chord – so here’s the other side of the coin.
To be clear, by ‘younger’ we mean ‘younger than you, but of legal and appropriate age.' Half-your-age-plus-7 is the usual rule where I come from, and it’s a good general guideline.
Sometimes it’s fun to be the experienced one – especially when it’s fulfilling for both parties.
Which is another good point: beware of internalised ageism.