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" There may be a pretense that the attack isn't happening: "In order to maintain a civil debate, I will not mention my opponent's drinking problem." Or "I don't care if other people say you're [opinionated/boring/overbearing]." Attacks don't have to be strong or direct.
You can merely show disrespect, or cut down his stature by saying that he seems to be sweating a lot, or that he has forgotten what he said last week. " "If you'd just listen.." "You seem very emotional." (This last works well if you have been hogging the microphone, so that they have had to yell to be heard.) Sometimes the attack is on the other person's intelligence.
Usually, the best way to cope with insults is to show mild amusement, and remain polite.
A humorous comeback will probably work better than an angry one.
simply attempting to make the other person angry, without trying to address the argument at hand. Needling is also Ad Hominem if you insult your opponent.
If the host or moderator is firmly on your side, that is almost as good as running the show yourself.Second, he is impatient with ambiguity, and wants a final answer right away.And third, "absence of evidence is not evidence of absence." asking your opponent a question which does not have a snappy answer." Actually, pretty well any question has this effect to some extent.It usually takes longer to answer a question than ask it.